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Monday, April 13, 2009

White Woman's Opinion of Black Women

Interesting, had to share it
Hope that you will enjoy it!!
Have a blessed day!!

White Woman's Opinion of Black Women

White women's opinion of black women & a brother's response

Please take a moment and read this. Pretty Deep! Thumbs up to this black man..


It seems that an article was written to Sister 2 Sister magazine by a Caucasian woman who requested a response from black men.. I'm so glad she got what she asked for (and
more) !!!

Dear Jamie:

I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male readers. I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good-looking, educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Black female's attitudes about our relationship. My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage. Before I became engaged,
whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If Black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we're out in public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them. Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen,
the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes...

I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White women because so many of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If I'm wrong, Black men, let me know.

Disgusted White Girl,
Somewhere in VA


Dear Jamie:

I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl. Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta , Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management.. I have a good job at a major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful black men. I will not use my
precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record straight of why black men date white women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were considered easy. The black girls in
my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls. Nowadays, in my opinion,
a lot of brothers date white women because they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control. I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all successful black men date white women. Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth 'Babyface' Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black women And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire black women over white women. Ted Dan son, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few. I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess. Remember, when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs. Read your history! It was the black woman
that taught you how to cook and season your food. It was the black woman that taught you how to raise your children. It was black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during slavery. It is the black woman that had to endure watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women were born with two strikes against them: being black and being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise! It is because of the black women's strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I could never date anyone except my black Queen. It is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I love them. Their inner beauty
is what I find most appealing about black women. Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in love with black women. I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy more so than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with your pale skin? Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous? I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have what the black woman has.
BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children. Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles. I am looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister and; unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit the bill.

No offense taken, none given.

Signed, Black Royalty

The reason i wanted to share this with you guys is that, i love to see a ignorant person put in their place weather it be about race/religion/politics/for that matter any subject area.

These views are not entirely shared by The Views of Jermaine Jackson, i am an equal opportunity type of guy.


Nola Darling said...

i've read this letter before...

very good stuff!


Anonymous said...

Well said. And beautifully put. :) Though i'm sure in the majority of the cases, it's pure love and nothin else. In matters of the heart, race doesn't matter.

OmegaRadium said...

I would love to have seen the look on that white girl's face when she read the reply. Priceless!

Hustlin In Lipgloss said...

wow! Crazy! I as a white woman that dates black men would NEVER put down a black woman for being upset. And for the man that set her in her place..KUDOS!!! Because she should have never put down a woman no matter the race. People should do what makes them happy! I am just as strong as any woman, and feel that as a woman no matter the culture we have to because we are women! Good Article and i hope some one woops ol girls

misz talia dunkz said...

w0w..that honestly is one of the best articles i have hear a black man stand up for his fellow black woman like that made meeh smile. Living in San Diego, all you see is black doodes with white girls && they are so quick to put down the black female...yet in most cases the black female is doing more than both him && his white chick all together. im not putting down the white female that it isnt about race. you shouldnt date someone on the color of their skin but by the cntent of their charcater. Me, personally, as i matured and experienced datng the back male out here in SD have come to find myself more attracted to the white male. Not by the content of their skin but because of how they treat me as a woman; but just the same a black doode could come along && decided to step his game up && it wouldnt matter about the color of his skin as well. we are all attracted to who we are attracted to for our own reasons...personally i perfer a mixture of black && white...
cuz i love a black mans swag and w white mans


Michael Jordan has been divorced from his black wife and has been dating a white woman for some time now.

Just thought I would point that out. ;)

Although personally, I think it means nothing. Has nothing to do with color. But depending on how one wants to see MJ's situation, it can have negative or positive ties to it. It's all how someone wants to twist it. Honestly though, I don't think it means anything. It just means his marriage didn't work out.