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Friday, March 27, 2009

My Life dating/

Why is it that telling the truth can sometime bee so hard and painful? As of late I have had a resurgence of old and new people expressing interest in my life. Which to me comes at a very convenient time, due to the fact that I am single and willing to date?

A few weeks ago, one of my x called and ask If I was going to be free on the week end, it so happen that I had nothing planned so I agreed to see her. The time was finally here! Friday so I got out work about 7 o clock, head to 42nd for happy hour with a few friends. Planet Hollywood had a 2 for 1 drink special so we head over there. While I was there drinking my phone kept going off every five minutes and I did not care to look on it, I was not trying to hear nothing from no one that will cut my happy hour short.

So getting tired of the stupid phone vibrating in my pocket, I finally took it out, 7 miss calls and 4 text from my x which I will call L, one of the text read” are we still seeing each other”
The second one read “am I fucking seeing you tonight”

When I saw this I was utterly pissed, I looked at it for about 5 minutes, took another shot of bloody Mary, and proceeded to respond. Which went something like this” did I not say yes about one million times today alone” trying to keep as calm as possible.

She replied” I know how things are always popping up on your schedule and I am always getting put off, so I want to make sure I don’t get dress for nothing” by this time she totally turned me off. I mean what do females think? Why can’t they understand that family and an opportunity to create income will always higher on the list than they will be if they are merely your x in this case or a friend?

The most fun date in sometime:

Do you guys remember the Real Estate agent I wrote about sometime now? She is my online friend of 2years that I was suppose to meet she lied that she was close and took too long to get there and I left.

We finally met last week Friday, finally she was on time, she also looked stunning; I guess that’s sort of a way to make it up for being late that first time. I took her to this really nice restaurant for dinner. She was the most fun person I have ever met in my life, like we were laughing all night, until one time the people next to us starts laughing also, they must have though we were crazy. Our meeting was very short being that I had to get my mom from work yeah I have to pick my mom up. She really hates driving in the city.

So this Friday I will be meeting another one of my x she moved from New York back home with her parents a few months ago, but now she is back in New York City, I am happy she is a great person to hang out with. I hope I have as much fun as last week, or even more being that we know each other, we will be going to the Sea in Williams Burge, it’s a great place to hung out, super awesome crowd of people, even though you have to wait like 2 hours to get a seat at times, its worth it.





insomniaclolita said...

That's a lot of dates :)

Have fun this weekend

ChinkyGirLMeL said...

Yey! Entering the dating scene again eh? Have a great weekend. =) By the way, I think it's really sweet that you still drive your mom around every now and then. =) What a sweetheart. =)

~*Miss A*~ said...

YAY!! I'm happy you're back out on the dating scene. One day I'm gonna get there....when I stop working so much lol.

Oh yeah...thanks for checking up on me. I've had a lot going on lately, haven't blogged much, but I plan on getting back into the habit.

Caitlin said...

wow- good luck with that- being friends with ex's can be messy but thats awesome that your going out and spending alot of time with friends and meeting people. Thats the best thing you can do.

Unbreakable said...

Its kind of weird but yes I am still friend with most or all my ex.’s , I don’t normally have messy brake ups, so that may be one of the reasons for that, I however had one, but I am still friend with that person.

I think I am a very efficient communicator at times, so all my ex’s call me for advice and yes I do sit and listen to their tons of problem even falling asleep at times. But yes I am a good listener so that may be the second and the ultimate reason.

Just so you all know, I had a great time on Friday.

Mrs.Zeus said...

WOW, it must've been sorta fun dating that much!!!
Thanks for dropping by at my blog!!!
What you said was very inspiring and thanks for listening. :)

Ella said...

meeting up with ex's...interesting =)