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Friday, December 26, 2008

WHY DO WE CHEAT

Cheating


Why do we cheat? This is a question that is often asked my females, but recently I surge in the amount of males asking this question.
So I sat down and asked myself is it that we as human can’t be satisfied with what we have?
I had the best relationship that I have ever had about two years ago with this lovely, very smart and beautiful young lady. Who I have to show my respect until this day. The relation was very good until one day I decided to step out of line and had a conversation with a young lady on my way home on the train, which lead to more than what is should have been.
One day I was home and decided to call my girl at the time, however she did not pick up the phone. So there was a call coming in and unfortunately it was from the girl I met on the train.
We were talking for about a hour and I was getting my way or at least so I thought, so in about ten minutes in our conversation I heard this message (THIS MEAIL BOX IS FULL) I was like what the hell. All that time I was trying to get with a total stranger I was destroying the loving relationship that I had.
Every single thing that we were talking about, was recording on my girls voice message.
Could you just imagine how my girl must have felt listening to that message, just imagine getting off work seeing that you men was calling happy to hear what he had to say by listening to your voice mail you got a message on that sort.
She was really destroyed by that message and until this day I am sorry for making such a very selfish and dumb mistake.
And the worst thing about this girl was that she was not half the woman as my girl was. So I gave up the great girl I had for someone that I would not even walk in the street with.
And for two years I stayed single, not because I don’t have a choice, but because I find that I was not ready for commitment. Many of you might ask why I had committed in the first place but that’s just a question that I can’t answer.
SO I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW FROM FEMALES AND WELL AS MALES WHY THEY CHEAT. BECAUSE BELIEVE IT OR NOT THERE ARE MANY REASON THAT PEAOPLE CHEAT. SOME FOR GOOD REASON AND SOME LIKE ME FOR NOT SO GOOD REASONS.

4 comments:

Rachel Tamed said...

I think fear is something that we all feel in certain ways. Sometimes it gets out. Even with a great person, there may be some insecurity. Some small missing piece. Some problem going on. Some need for another kind of validation. All rooted in fear though. At least in my humble opinion.

Wow, burn on the voicemail, I imagine that situation was hell for both of you, and I hope that both of you recovered alright.

Unbreakable said...

well we still stay in touch with each other,we still love each other but we will never be back to gather because of the loss of trust. but thanks again for u kind words

Nana said...

I so relate nowadays theonly way to get a job You HAVE to be a relative ora friend. Its messed up but its all biut connections rather than actual qualifucations. Im glad you got a stable job. Loving the blog

Stephanie said...

As bad as it sounds, I think cheating only makes sense! I think humans desire companionship, but also like mystery, variety and so on. You can have companionship with so many different people because no 1 person will fulfill all your needs. I don't think commitment is completely natural, but on the other hand I don't believe in cheating. It takes will power and I keep myself on the straight and narrow by always thinking do I want to risk what I have for x,y,z and it may end in a terrible mess?

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